Pop Quiz: Where is your child safer?

a) Walking alone down a dark alley in a rough part of town late at night.
b) Sitting at home on their phone, tablet, or computer in the middle of the day.

The obvious answer seems to be b—but in reality, it may be just as dangerous, if not more. The dark alley carries a potential threat, but one thing is certain: when your child goes online, there are predators and dangers waiting.

The old image of a predator as a shady-looking stranger in a trench coat is outdated. Today’s predators can be anyone—men and women from all walks of life: professionals, coaches, neighbors, even people in trusted positions. And unlike the dark alley, predators online don’t have to be in the same town, state, or even country. They can reach your child instantly through social media, gaming platforms, messaging apps, and chatrooms.

The “teen” your child is messaging on Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, or Discord may in fact be a 35-year-old adult. Online predators are skilled at pretending to be peers, slowly building trust, and gathering personal details. An innocent conversation about favorite music, sports, or weekend plans can reveal enough for them to know your child’s school, daily routines, and where they’ll be after practice.

Some predators don’t rush. They build long-term relationships, sending gifts, compliments, or even money—gradually grooming children to trust them. The end goal is the same: to manipulate, exploit, and often arrange an in-person meeting.

The Internet is an incredible tool for learning, connection, and fun. But it’s also a space filled with very real risks. Acknowledging that reality is the first step to protecting your child. Here are some updated ways to help:

• Set boundaries for screen time. Limit recreational use of devices to one or two hours a day, depending on your child’s age.
• Keep tech in open spaces. Place computers and gaming systems in family areas, and regularly check in on how your child is using their phone or tablet.
• Stay informed. Learn about the apps, games, and platforms your child uses. Many parents find their kids know far more about tech than they do—but it’s never too late to catch up.
• Teach privacy. Make sure your child understands never to share personal details like their full name, school, location, or photos online. Even casual information can be enough for someone with bad intentions.
• Encourage openness. Let your kids know they can come to you if they see or hear something that makes them uncomfortable. React with calm and support, not anger.
• Take threats seriously. If someone suspicious is contacting your child, report it to the platform and, if needed, to local law enforcement.

Now—back to that pop quiz. Where is your child safer? The answer depends less on where they are and more on how aware and protected they are. With guidance, boundaries, and open communication, you can help make their digital world as safe as possible.