Suicide Prevention

Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. – 1 Peter 5:7

If you are having suicidal thoughts or know someone who is, call or text the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.
Chat at 988lifeline.org
You will be connected with a trained counselor. This is a free service available 24/7. Your conversation is confidential unless there is imminent danger for you or others.

NOTE: We are not medical professionals, and this resource should not be considered a substitute for professional advice or treatment. It is meant to support the steps recommended by a qualified healthcare provider, not to replace or overshadow any necessary medical guidance.

5 Action Steps

Here are five preventative steps for you to help someone experiencing suicidal thoughts and/or behaviors.

  1. Ask: Inquire directly, “Are you thinking about suicide?” This shows you’re open to discussing it in a caring, non-judgmental way.
  2. Be Present: Whether it’s being physically there, chatting on the phone, or offering support in other ways, your presence matters. Listen actively to understand their thoughts and feelings.
  3. Ensure Safety: Take steps to limit access to potentially lethal items or locations. While it can be challenging, asking about their plans and removing dangerous means can be crucial for their safety. Keep a line of sight – this is especially important for parents with teens/kids.
  4. Facilitate Connections: Support them in accessing professional and community resources. Offer to help them reach out to trusted individuals like family members, friends, spiritual advisors, or mental health professionals.
  5. Follow Up: After providing immediate support, check in on them later to see how they’re doing and offer continued support.

Warning Signs

Many people who die by suicide show one or more of the behaviors listed below. The risk of suicide is greatest when the behaviors listed below are the result of a painful event, loss, or change.

  • Talking about wanting to die or to kill themselves
  • Looking for a way to kill themselves, like searching online or buying a gun
  • Talking about feeling hopeless or having no reason to live
  • Talking about feeling trapped or in unbearable pain
  • Talking about being a burden to others
  • Increasing the use of alcohol or drugs
  • Acting anxious or agitated
  • Sleeping too little or too much
  • Withdrawing or isolating themselves
  • Showing rage or talking about seeking revenge
  • Extreme mood swings
  • Some people might experience elevated mood – seem more relaxed or at peace as that can indicate that they have made the decision for suicide and are at peace with that decision and for some are even looking forward to it.

Risk Factors

Risk factors are characteristics that make it more likely someone will die by suicide:

  • Mental health conditions, particularly mood disorders, schizophrenia, anxiety disorders, and certain personality disorders
  • Alcohol and other substance use disorders
  • Hopelessness
  • Impulsive and/or aggressive tendencies
  • History of trauma or abuse
  • Major physical illnesses
  • Previous suicide attempt(s)
  • Family history of suicide
  • Job or financial loss
  • Loss of relationship(s)
  • Easy access to lethal means
  • Local clusters of suicide
  • Lack of social support and sense of isolation
  • Stigma associated with asking for help
  • Lack of health care, especially mental health and substance use treatment
  • Cultural and religious beliefs, such as the belief that suicide is a noble resolution of a personal dilemma
  • Exposure to others who have died by suicide (in real life or via the media and internet)
  • Someone who hurts themselves on purpose may or may not have the intention to die by suicide.

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    Protective Factors

    Protective factors can reduce the risk of suicide:

    • Strong Coping and Problem-Solving Skills
    • Meaningful Reasons for Living, such as relationships with family, friends, or pets
    • A Robust Sense of Cultural Identity
    • Support from Partner, Family, and Friends
    • Connection with Others
    • Involvement in School, Community, or Social Organizations
    • Access to Reliable and High-Quality Physical and Mental Health Care
    • Safe Storage Practices for Firearms and Medications

    Teens and Suicide

    How can I get my teen to talk with me about these issues?
    Try starting with one or more of these conversation openers:

    • “Tell me more about what’s happening to you. I’m here to listen.”
    • “I care. I want to listen and understand. What do you want me to know about the way you feel and what’s going on?”
    • “Do you ever have thoughts of harming yourself?”

    Axis.org has great resources, find more here.

    Suicide Prevention Help for YOU

    • Seek Therapy or Support Groups: Talking to a professional can enhance your well-being. Call 211 or visit their website to explore local therapy and support group options.
    • Create a Support Network: Connect with others to reduce feelings of isolation and recognize your importance within a larger community.
    • Engage in Activities: Join an interest group, volunteer, take a class, or pick up a new hobby to enrich your life.
    • Use Social Media: Share your feelings and connect with others who have experienced similar challenges.
    • Surround Yourself with Positivity: Spend time with encouraging individuals, including family, friends, coworkers, neighbors, and spiritual advisors.
    • Utilize Your Support Network: Lean on your network during tough times for encouragement and assistance.
    • Express Your Emotions: Don’t hesitate to share how you’re feeling with trusted individuals.
    • Stay Open-Minded: Be receptive to different perspectives and opinions from others.
    • Prioritize Self-Care: Take time for activities that promote your physical and mental well-being.
    • Develop a Safety Plan: Create a plan to help navigate challenging moments.
    • Identify Personal Warning Signs: Note the thoughts, feelings, or situations that signal a difficult time may be approaching.
    • Use Coping Strategies: List activities you can engage in to help manage urges to harm yourself.
    • Socialize: Identify people and social settings that can provide distraction from stressful thoughts.
    • Connect with Supportive Individuals: Make a list of family members or friends you can talk to when feeling stressed.
    • Reach Out to Professionals: Compile a list of mental health professionals, agencies, and hotlines, such as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
    • Limit Access to Lethal Means: Make your environment safer to reduce the risk of acting on suicidal thoughts.
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