When we are called “social conservatives,” it means we are known for what we are against. We oppose abortion, euthanasia, promiscuity, same-sex marriage, and the list can go on. Those who walk outside of the guidance of Scripture characterize Christianity as a group of contrarians.

Because the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20) never takes a holiday, we are challenged to find a “bridge” to talk about Jesus this Christmas season.

We can’t talk about Christmas without invoking the title of Jesus as “Christ.” It is two-thirds of the word! Though the world tries to neutralize the Christ of Christmas with “Happy Holidays,” don’t get lost in the battle for words. Bridge building is much more than exchanging a greeting at the cash register. Bridge building is relationship building.

Jesus warned,

Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold. (Matthew 24:12)

While using the right words can communicate conviction, nothing does it better than action. As the world’s demeanor deeply chills, do we stand out for our generous hearts? As the world walks by the struggles of others, do we step in to carry their burdens? While the world stands for anything so long as it doesn’t hurt, are we willing to suffer for doing the right thing (John 15:13; 1 Peter 2:20)?

Scripture teaches that no one is saved by performance. We cannot work, give, or suffer enough to earn our salvation. It is God’s gift to us. But equally clear is that faith manifests itself in what we do. It is what we do that forges relationships and builds bridges. By doing these good works we have a forum to give a reason for our hope (1 Peter 3:15).

Christmas is a time of gift-giving, family, decorating, and traditions. Isn’t it time we step beyond that and look distinctively different from the rest?

Use this season for the opportunity it presents for us to demonstrate goodwill to build bridges. You can begin a different kind of relationship through continued personal sacrifice and AGAPE-level love (commitment with no expectation of recognition or reward). It still might be weeks, months, or years before that relationship is stable enough to talk more in-depth about why we are distinct and different (namely, because of what Christ did for you), but when the bridge is open, progress is made.

From all of us at Christian Life Resources and New Beginnings – A Home for Mothers, we pray you have the most blessed form of the season that includes personal joy in the message of the Savior’s birth and a commitment to spread the message by building a bridge.